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Should you ‘Friend’ your co-workers on social media?

September 15, 2017

Do you “like” the idea of office friendships crossing over into social media?

More than seven in 10 professionals (71 percent) polled by staffing firm OfficeTeam said it’s appropriate to connect with colleagues on Facebook. Slightly fewer feel it’s OK to follow co-workers on Twitter (61 percent), Instagram (56 percent) and Snapchat (44 percent). In contrast, less than half of senior managers interviewed think it’s fine to engage with fellow employees on Facebook (49 percent), Twitter (34 percent), Instagram (30 percent) and Snapchat (26 percent).

According to the worker survey, male employees and those ages 18 to 34 find it more acceptable to connect with colleagues on social media than their counterparts.

Workers were asked, “How appropriate do you think it is to connect with co-workers on the following social media channels?” Their responses:

  Facebook Twitter Instagram Snapchat
Very appropriate 27% 31% 22% 14%
Somewhat appropriate 44% 39% 36% 30%
Not very appropriate 16% 22% 25% 31%
Not appropriate at all 13% 17% 19% 26%
100% 100% 100% 101%*

Senior managers were asked, “How appropriate do you think it is to connect with co-workers on the following social media channels?” Their responses:

 

Facebook

Twitter

Instagram

Snapchat

Very appropriate

4%

2%

5%

2%

Somewhat appropriate

45%

32%

25%

24%

Not very appropriate

28%

41%

39%

36%

Not appropriate at all

23%

25%

32%

36%

Don’t know/no answer

0%

0%

0%

2%

 

100%

100%

101%*

100%

*Responses do not total 100 percent due to rounding.

“While the lines between our personal and professional lives continue to blur, not everyone’s comfortable connecting with colleagues on digital channels,” said Brandi Britton, a district president for OfficeTeam. “Before friending or following someone, check if that individual has other co-workers in their networks. When in doubt, let fellow employees make the first move online.”

Britton added, “Interacting with colleagues on social media can help build stronger relationships. But it should be done with care—you might not want to share everything with work friends that you would with closer personal contacts.”

OfficeTeam offers the following don’ts when connecting with co-workers on social media, along with advice for what to do instead:

Don’t

Do This Instead

Add everyone you work with to your social networks

Be selective. If a colleague’s connections are limited to a few office buddies, sending an invite could be overstepping your boundaries.

Reject a coworker’s friend request

Explain that you prefer to keep your account limited to personal use and suggest connecting on a professional networking site like LinkedIn. In some cases, it may be best to accept the offer so you don’t offend the person. Adjust privacy settings to control what information he or she has access to.

Post updates or photos that reveal too much

Use your best judgment when sharing. Not everyone needs to know what you did last night, and certain topics can come across as unprofessional. Remove questionable images from your profiles.

Interact with people in your network only when you need something

Pay it forward by helping your online contacts and show support for their personal interests. You may discover things in common you can bond over.


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Filed Under: Topics, Managing staff, Managing the office, Technology, Working with lawyers, Your career, articles Tagged With: social media

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